Friday, July 28, 2017

Toxic people and how to not let them affect your HAPPINESS

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In a perfect world, everyone would get along, would be respectful, would be kind.

We don't live in a perfect world and with 25 years of experiences in this life, I've learned that we weren't born to please everyone, of course, and some people can be disrespectful and mean, just for the sake of it, some people are just toxic.
Some have themselves a shitty life and the only moment they feel happiness and pleasure are those moments on a day that they try to make others feel like them or worst than them.
When you are a peaceful, kind person just trying to live your life, and reached a peaceful inner state of mind, where you don't want any drama, you simply don't want to deal with those people.
You aren't trying to hurt anybody, you try your best to do your best, to be your best.

Unfortanly people like this will appear in your life and you will have to deal with them, you can try to give the benefit of doubt in one day or two when this happens, but trust your instincts, if you really feel that someone isn't a good person don't try to fix them, don't even bother to get along.
You have to know what is best for you, and if you know that one person is a negative person or feel like it's a toxic person that probably will hurt you, get a step back, that person doesn't deserve you, doesn't deserve your kindness, your time, your spirit peace.

You might think that is your fault because they will make you think that way, that is you that make all the mistakes, that is you that is not enough, that you are too young to understand anything.
Don't let those people affect your inner balance, question your balance, your worth.
Like I said, usually, people that try to make others feel bad for the simple things, or make others feel like they don't do enough or are not worthy, people that are always judging others, have a shitty life, all they feel is frustration about their lives, they already accommodated to a certain type of life that doesn't make them happy, they feel insecure about themselves. That's why they feel the need to judge other, criticize others, at the end of the day they are not truly happy.

But be aware, most of this people try to appear like they are great persons with all the knowledge about everything, they seem to carry you in their hearts, they act like they are protecting you from something, but at the first opportunity they have they will make  something to harm you, that's when their mask falls out.
It can be difficult at first to stand for yourself, it can be hard to defend yourself, it might be hard to go away from those people, but if you feel that relationship isn't working, that is affecting your inner peace or is making you unhappy, step way, find people that really matter, that fit you, that what you take out of that relationship is happiness, that you feel good around those people.

You have the choice to be happy, you have the right to pursue your happiness and what people you want with you in this journey called life.
Be kind, stand for yourself and your happiness!

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